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  • 3 year old affecting entire family

    Hi. We have three girls, 6, 3 and 9mo. The 3 year old is a high feeling, very intelligent little girl who is in OT to help us handle this but, I need some encouragement and advice. The flying off the handle, screaming bloody murder when she doesn’t get her way…it is killing us. It has seeped into every moment of our lives. We do timers do help with transitions, which doesn’t help. Bedtime is an absolute nightmare, she stays up late and wakes up early. She shares a room with her 6 year old sister, who actually enjoys sleep. She lies, she twists out words on us (“no YOU screamed at ME and hurt ME”). We are hoping OT will help, we’re about three weeks in. We haven’t done OT before and plan to ask at what point do they start addressing these types of behaviors but, can anyone shed some light or encouragement here? We are contemplating having her be in her own room and have the 9 month old and 6 year old share. It’s affecting our 6 year old and we are just at a loss. She responds to nothing. She has cherry picked potty training, she will poop in the potty when she wants but refuses to pee - not because she can’t but because she “doesn’t want to.” SOS. We are exhausted.
    Toddlers 0 5 18
  • Colonics?

    Has anyone had a colonic? What can I expect? Would love to hear your experience. Doing it to hopefully flush everything out. Sorta nervous and also wtf am I doing?
    Fitness and Wellness 0 4 33
  • How to Talk to Our Kids in the Wake of Tragedy- Expert Katie Taylor, CCLS

    Talking to Our Kids in the Wake of Tragedy Katie Taylor, Certified Child Life Specialist, Founder Child Life On Call, @Katie-Taylor-CCLS First and foremost, my heart is aching for so many families whose worlds were forever changed yesterday.️ As a parent who is watching the relentless rain pour over our hill country, I can speak to the fact that this is a true terror for so many friends and neighbors who are still looking for their girls. As parents, it’s hard to know how to (or if we should) share these horrific events with our kids. Questions like: Should I tell my kids? Should I let them watch the news? What do I say? Hopefully some of this info about how to handle hard conversations lightens this heaviness we are all feeling. Despite our best efforts, kids pick up when adults are sad, scared and worried. This doesn’t mean you have to hide your feelings better. It just means you should be aware that your kids may notice you’re upset, and may internalize it as it’s something they’ve done wrong (even when it has nothing to do with them). Having a prepared answer may be helpful here – some things you could say: “My heart is hurting for families who have family members who have been hurt by the floods” “I’m crying because something terrible has happened and it’s making me feel sad” “Thank you for noticing how I feel. When I feel sad and you notice a hug from you makes me feel better. It’s not your fault i’m sad.” If you have an older child who wants details about what happened, trust your gut on how and when to give information. Give bite-sized, honest and simple statements. “The river has flooded and people have died” “Families are searching for people who they love and can’t find” **If your child starts to get sad/scared/upset that’s normal-**offer hugs, love and remind them they are safe. If your child changes the subject, that’s also normal. Insight that it’s not a good time. Validate how they are feeling. “I see you’re done talking about it and that’s perfectly okay. Let me know when you want to talk about it again or if you have any questions.” When you’re done talking consider action together. Draw pictures of how you’re feeling, find items to donate, talk about what you do when you’re sad. Above all just remember: You make your child feel safe. Sadness, fear and worry are completely bearable when your child has you to feel this with.️
    Mental Health for Kids 1 1 37
  • How to Stop Spending on Amazon?

    Pretty sure i'm addicted. How do I stop? Everything I buy we use (for the most part) but it is still just stuff we don't NEED. I'm spending way too much for the convenience and I've noticed the quality of items has gone down and I'm terrible with returns. I need to drastically cut back but I also work full time so need the convenience???? Anyone else????
    Balancing Life 2 12 300
  • Endometrial Ablation

    Is this an option for women past child bearing years that don’t want to have a period anymore? Risks, recovery, experiences? What are the other options for those of us who just don’t want a period!
    Moms 2 5 65
  • Great sun hat?

    Anyone have recs for a wide brim sun hat that can get wet but still look somewhat cute?
    Summer, Swimming, Beach 0 1 7
  • Meals to freeze that’s not lasagna

    Looking for meals/recipes I can double and freeze for busy weeknights and when I travel for work etc Preferably not lasagna.
    Feeding the Family 0 1 14
  • Best Non Toxic Tampons - that ACTUALLY Work!

    Looking for the best non toxic tampons that actually work - AKA don't fall out when you walk (bare minimum) but staying put for a lunge/workout would be IDEAL!!
    Selfcare 0 3 269
  • Raw milk for kids

    Has anyone had good experiences with raw milk for littles? Where is your favorite place in Austin to buy raw milk?
    Kids 0 4 44
  • Favorite menstrual cup

    Anyone other ladies using cups? Which brand do you like?
    Intimacy 0 5 73
  • Picky eaters / Vitamin Rec’s

    For my pickier kid eaters, what multivitamin / kids supplements do I really need to have them to take?? What makes the most impact?
    Extracurriculars 0 3 28
  • Favorite Birthday Decorations

    This may sound silly, but I'm looking to buy reusalbe Birthday decorations for my kids b-days. Do you have any favorites you like? I don't want it to be a cluster or tangled up every time I put it away in a box (lol). I want some fun decor to be able to easily pull out every time. OR - any b-day traditions you like to do every year? Like a specical plate or decor. Would love all the ideas!
    Kids 0 3 21
  • Best THC beverage?

    Looking to replace alcohol with a thc canned beverage. What’s your favorite? I’m not a huge fan of sweet. Margarita is my “goto” cocktail. Thanks!
    All the Tea 1 9 1k
  • Favorite go to meal for friends

    Send me your favorite meals to make friends that just had a baby, have an illness or just need something taken off their plate. I need some new ones!
    Feeding the Family 0 13 235
  • Do you provide dinner for your babysitters?

    I've never really known what normal protocol looks like. Occasionally I have ordered a pizza or something, but does anyone have a standard practice on this?
    Child Care 0 9 403
  • Swimsuits that are modest but not frumpy?

    Hi! I am a 34H, size 8ish. Where can I buy one pieces that offer great support but aren’t too cheeky? I have the one piece from JCrew, also have some Summersalt ones but I feel like I need more bust support. Is there such a thing without spending five million dollars??
    Favorite Products 0 8 180
  • Fireworks

    What is a good age for little kids first fire work show?
    Kids 0 1 15
  • Best Plates and Bowls for Kiddos?

    Hi! Looking to replace/upgrade my kids plates and bowls. Does anyone have any they love/recommend? Thinking not plastic. TIA!
    Feeding the Family 1 4 50
  • Luggage

    Looking for some new luggage but there are so many to choose from. We need more than just carry ons, something with large options and good wheels. Do you have one you love?
    Travel 0 4 43
  • Toe walker

    My 5 year old is still walking on his toes. I have always watched carefully he is meeting mile stones and possible signs for autism. My son is very social and active. Any suggestions? Thank you!
    Kids with Disabilities 0 3 49