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  • Pregnancy over 35 HELP!

    Hi Mamas!!

    I have 2 little ones, and we have been trying for our 3rd for over 2 years now! I didn't have trouble getting pregnant with our first two, but having trouble this time. I am also 37 years old!

    Rather than go down the IVF route, I was wondering if anyone has experience with natural ways of helping. Open to supplements, herbs etc.

    Miscarriage and Infertility 0 7 38
  • 4th birthday party ideas in Austin, TX

    My son turns 4 in March, looking for new ideas for his bday party in Austin. We did MyGym for age 2 and Play Street Museum for his 3rd. Considering Pikopye's but it's so similar to Play Street. Weather can be so hit or miss in March, I prefer indoors to play it safe. Any suggestions? Thanks!

    Toddlers 0 5 18
  • Big sister not taking to newborn

    Hi, my friend just had a baby 2 days ago. Her oldest (21 mos) has been hysterically crying since being introduced to baby brother. Any tips/tricks to help her through the transition? I told her to put more emphasis on her being a 'big sister' and less about the baby.

    Newborns 0 3 33
  • Mourning Being “Done”

    I was not prepared for the amount of tears I’m having while knowing our family is wonderfully complete…I still just cannot believe I’ll never deliver another little baby or feel the first movements, etc. Am
    I nuts? I know we’re complete but I am so distraught about it.

    Moms 0 4 10
  • Toddler bedtime advice

    I am desperate for advice. My almost 3yo toddler has suddenly started screaming bloody murder every night when my husband or I try to leave the room. She never was happy for us to leave, but this screaming is next level. When she was newly 2, she had some bedtime tantrums but nothing like this. She has a 3 month old sibling, so I’m guessing part of this is sleep regression related to that. We have a very solid bedtime routine that hasn’t changed (bath, books, songs, bed). We spend so much of each day playing with her and connecting, so the rhetoric of needing connection does not apply here. Have any of you successfully navigated something like this? Or do I just accept that bedtime is going to take hours with screaming until my children are in elementary school? (Plz no!!!)

    Toddlers 0 6 21
  • Mushrooms - Where to Start??

    Hi!

    I've never tried mushrooms, but I am seeing all the hype about how Moms these days are turning to mushrooms instead of alcohol. Would love to hear others feedback, as well as where do I start?

    Obviously, need a reliable source where to get them as well as the types. I don't want to hallucinate or anything!

    Coming from a mama who's never dabbled in them and JUST curious!

    All the Tea 3 8 439
  • Homework always ends in tears…it’s so bad

    Any advice on making homework less miserable? One of us always ends in tears. I hated homework when I was in school and I double hate it as a parent. Helppppppp waving my white flag before the semester has even started. My later elementary kid has mild adhd.

    Tweens and Teens 0 4 43
  • How much is your housekeeper?

    Hi Austin moms, how much do you pay your housekeeper, and what does she do for that amount?
    For example-
    Mondays $225 whole house takes 4ish hours (2ppl)
    Thursdays $130 2ish hours and that’s a tidy plus washing and folding and putting away laundry.

    Now that we’re settling into our life as a family of 5, there’s just so many piles of stuff everywhere. Our kids are little and require a lot of attention, help, and we have a lot of potty accidents. I realize that it’s time for our oldest child to start doing a little more, but I sort of wish I had our housekeeper come over 3x per week with a solid plan for what to do each time she comes.

    I will say- I ordered a Hidden Helper from amazon and the kids have started to help with the dishes more. That thing’s been great.

    Tips appreciated.
    Thanks moms!

    Making the Home Function 1 9 82
  • Pierced Ears Help

    Any tips on constant infected ears? Thinking it’s from cheap earrings, but hoping for tips on cleaning and healing. Thanks y’all

    Tweens and Teens 0 3 11
  • Looking to cut down on alcohol in 2025.

    Looking to cut down (possibly out) on alcohol in 2025. Any advice or tips/tricks? I feel like there’s a lot out there now for the soberish

    Selfcare 2 10 171
  • Orthopedic Rec

    I’m looking for the best doctor for rotator cuff surgery. Any recs?

    Fitness and Wellness 0 5 68
  • Leaving Workforce/ SAHM - advice!

    Hi! Looking for advice and experience of people who have gone through similar situation. I have been working since my kids were born, and my oldest is 8 now. I am having trouble finding the balance and motivation to continue working this high stress (tech start up) job, and miss out on my kids younger ages.

    Anyone have experience giving up their high paying careers for either part time or staying home?

    Scared of the adjustment financially and not having any career at all.

    Balancing Life 2 18 316
  • Companies that are Pro Work Life Balance/Family

    Would love to hear from everyone about companies that are family forward. I've heard there are great companies out there that don't just say they are family friendly, but truly are!

    For example, flexibility when it comes to kids activities, school related volunteer opportunities etc.

    Thinking of this on a U.S. based as a lot of jobs are remote these days!! Let's hear them!

    Balancing Life 0 1 140
  • Sleep training recs in Austin

    Any recommendations for sleep training/sleep experts in the Austin area?

    Sleep 0 4 35
  • Melatonin-free sleep vitamins for kids and teens?

    Does anyone have a magic concoction to help kids and teens to wind down at night? Specifically looking for something without melatonin!

    Sleep 0 10 288
  • Face Skin Care HELP!

    For a mid 30s mom who knows nothing about skin care and has always been bare minimum wash face & use moisturizer... needing to do better. Any good tried & true recommendations on what to do on a daily basis? Daily sunscreen/moisturizer that is thin and goes under make up well?

    Selfcare 1 7 200
  • Best book you read in 2024??

    I’m hoping to read more in 2025. I’d love to know what made the top of your list this year??

    Selfcare 1 20 272
  • Is Mufasa the movie kid appropriate?

    What’s the deal with a lot of “kid movies” not actually being kid appropriate? Is Mufasa okay for young elementary school age or is it too intense?

    Extracurriculars 0 4 64
  • Average amount of sex per week??

    Soooo, what is a “normal” weekly sex life for a couple with two young kids?? Anyone else SO exhausted and can’t find the “perfect” time during the day for sex.

    Moved Solved Marriage and Partnership 4 20 2k
  • Do I hold my June Baby Back for Kindergarten?

    I know it depends on the kid but I'm really conflicted. I feel like he's ready but everyone holds their kids back these days, I don't want him to be behind just by default of everyone else's choices.

    All the Tea 2 9 351