Great question. I actually think there is a great middle option - which is to see this as “peer conflict” instead of bullying. Peer conflict is very normal AND something important to address with our kids. You can equip them with tools on how to respond when a child is saying or doing throngs that feel mean. It’s a good teachable moment for your child. If things aren’t changing with those tools - talking to a teacher to help them be aware and problem solve with them, can also help it improve most often with young kids.
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