I could’ve written this post. It’s so hard and honestly bizarre to me. Sometimes people don’t have the skill set of hosting. Other times people don’t think about organizing but are happy to be invited. We rarely get invited despite having a lot of friends

First, ugh, sweet angel and mama!!!! I’m not saying this is the entire solution but could potentially be a part of the puzzle… have you checked vitamin deficiencies? My kids need more iron when they are going through growth spurts which causes them to be emotional. Don’t supplement iron without consulting pediatrician first. But maybe a round of lab work is worth it?
Also, I assume she’s sleeping enough? My kids cannot emotionally regulate without sleep and they need 11 hours.

Hopefully an OT or therapist might have some advice too.

Zero plans. Actually keep forgetting that’s next weekend…
Hopefully he’ll want to smoke something or grill something and will likely get nicer cuts of meat we normally wouldn’t get. And make his favorite desserts. That’s about all I have in me…

Omg this was me!!! I had my husband change the password and not tell me. It was extreme but needed. And I detoxed and when I felt in control again I logged back in. It’s just like social media addicting AF!