We do Disney almost yearly but we usually go in the summer so I can’t speak to other best times to visit but I absolutely would use a planner to book everything. They can offer up advice on when to go when it’s less crowded. The planners are completely free to you (they receive a commission from Disney) so it’s really a win-win to use. Courtney with My Mickey Vacation Travel is outstanding! She visits very often and knows the parks inside and out. She also is a master at booking dining for the group. Can’t recommend enough!

I always prefer to stay at a resort on the monorail or one that you can access Magic Kingdom by boat but Disney makes all the resorts a magical experience. It’s really the best place ever!

100% agree with limited activities after school. I had my first in gymnastics and hip hop on separate days and it was pulling teeth to get her there because she was so tired. Also, limited questions about the school day until they are ready to chat. AND stick to an early bedtime. We try to have ours in bed by 7:30pm every weeknight. They need the sleep!