Mourning Being “Done”
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I was not prepared for the amount of tears I’m having while knowing our family is wonderfully complete…I still just cannot believe I’ll never deliver another little baby or feel the first movements, etc. Am
I nuts? I know we’re complete but I am so distraught about it. -
Not nuts. Solidarity, I've been exactly where you are. I actually won't let me husband get a vasectomy even though I know we are done bc then it really means we're done-I know so dumb, but I am who I am.
I'm sure it goes back to biology, but I have no idea.
All that to say, yes that is so real and you are validated. Right there with you. -
@SpilledMilk thank you 🤍🤍
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I am struggling with the SAME battle over here. I just posted about it as well. I go back and forth about wanting another and I feel like I am older now so much harder to have another. The mourning is real!! Especially if you have all the same gender!!
