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onemoregame

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Been married 13 years and need to "spice up" my sex game with my husband! Help for a normal person plz!

My husband and I have pretty much done it the same for 13ish years. Add in kids, pergnancy, postpartum etc and I'm just proud to do it at all. But my kids are getting a little older and I want to spice it up a little...but i'm not a freak in the sheets, just a little something different. Ideas??
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babyduck

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High School Reunions - do you accompany your spouse?

My husband has his upcoming 25 year high school reunion- he said he would not be comfortable going to mine. Which in female language means he doesn't want me to go to his- which has hurt my feelings. Do you go to your spouses reunions? Am I overreacting?
Feeling:frustrated
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getinthecar

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Valentine's Day: Gifts for US vs. HIM

Hi Mamas - Valentine's always feels like a big disappointment for me. Do you expect gifts and excitement, and do you spoil your spouse with anything? We normally are pretty basic, but I'm wondering what other couples do?
Feeling:tired
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getinthecar

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Keeping the spark alive?

My husband and I have been together 15+ years. Any advice on how you keep the spark alive? With kids, working, and general day-to-day life, I feel like all of our conversations are just household "business" and nothing is building connection (or bringing any fun) these days. Would love some tips!
Feeling:hopeful
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bluedolphin

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Average amount of sex per week??

Soooo, what is a β€œnormal” weekly sex life for a couple with two young kids?? Anyone else SO exhausted and can’t find the β€œperfect” time during the day for sex.
Feeling:neutral
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bluedolphin

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Marriage counselor recs

Anyone have any marriage counselors in the Austin area they love? We aren’t having any major issues, just trying to grow our relationship more after being together a long time.
Feeling:neutral
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Salmon Cricket

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Husband is Depressed

I can tell my husband is depressed. He has been for a while and I’m just unsure how to support him right now. Not to mention we have 3 kids and I’m feeling super burnt out carrying the emotional load of the family. He’s snappy with the kids and it’s the biggest turn off. Any ideas to help him get back to normal?
Feeling:neutral
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bluedolphin

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Oral sex honesty

Ok getting V personal here…my husband loves to go down on me and it is not my favorite and I would like to know if this is the norm or abnormal to not enjoy it that much?? Any tips to help enjoy it more??
Feeling:neutral
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brown horse

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Men are from Mars… women are from Venus

Does anyone’s husband understand that sex / sexual attraction for the woman starts with emotions and the minute they walk into the house?! I would love my husband to ask me out, engage with me/have a conversation etc and then it’s all fair game later and I am much more into it. Trying to navigate how to show him this?!
Feeling:neutral
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Black Zebra

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Husbands says I’m not β€œinto” sex enough…

My husband recently told me that I’m β€œnot into sex enough”. Honestly this was major news to me as I feel like I’m doing an amazing job by just showing up for him with everything we have going on. Sometimes I’m into it but normally I’m so exhausted I’m like β€œokay let’s get this done” but again, I’m still showing up…Help?
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HotMessExpress

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Absorption Stick Post Sex

One of my friends was telling me about this cotton stick (sorta like a tampon) that you insert after having sex and it soaks up all the cum/juice/whatever all that stuff is hahaha is this legit?? It would be nice to not have cum dripping out of me the next day even after I pee and shower.
Feeling:neutral
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White Alligator

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Sex Drive Rating

On a scale of 1-10 how would you rate your sex drive?From a tired mom of 2 boys!!! lol
Feeling:neutral
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WhatsOnYourMB

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Zero s3x drive after having kids...don't tell me hormones

I feel bad. I'm just so tired, not in the mood, and don't want to be touched. I know it's probably my hormones but please give me some practical tips to help me get back to "it" a little more regularly
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