Anyone have experience with pregnancy loss with mono/di twins?
We lost one of our mono/di (identical) twins around the 14 week mark. Nothing I read online about health and survival rate for the surviving twin is great… I’m looking for success stories with twins who originally shared a placenta only. Thank you.
Feeling:overwhelmed
MIL donated all the diapers from the baby shower, is that normal?
To preface I get along with my mother in law usually, she can be a bit over the top but I rather have a enthused MIL than an uninvolved one. She just hosted us a wonderful shower that her and family put a lot of work into. We feel very grateful. We opened gifts and unwrapped 2 packs of diapers. After the party we were loading the car up and we saw outside people had left boxes and packs of diapers right by the front door, probably roughly like 10 of various brands. Honestly my husband and I were stoked because this was going to help us a lot. This is our first baby and we just moved into a house and costs add up. We started loading the diapers and my MIL comes out and says "oh these are diapers for donation in honor of our baby". My husband and I were a little dumbfounded. There was something stated on the back of the baby shower invite that if people wished to donate diapers or unwrapped small toys in honor of the baby they could, but I had kind of forgot or assumed it would be in a different pile somewhere with some unwrapped baby toys. I understand her intentions but we practically have no diapers and we are new parents in need of diapers 😅. Then we looked back and see there is a little donation sign. Part of me feels like many people had intentions to donate but I am sure some of those diapers might have just been placed there as gifts for us. I feel guilty for feeling selfish after the shower we just had- but diapers feel more of a necessity than all the cutesy shoes and clothes. I tried not to rant to my husband because at least someone in need is getting diapers, but its eating me up a little. Then the whole shower she kept saying the phrase "our baby", I don't mind it a little but she was kind of acting like she was birthing our kid 🫠 I am sure I will be able to look back at this and laugh but now I just feel kind of icky. My parents were at the shower too and I could tell they were getting icked out too by my MIL's weird ownership. My parents are very happy for us but they have a mentality of "you let us know how we can support you guys as new parents" approach like watching the baby ect. My parents hosted us a shower as well and my in-laws went so they know we didn't receive many diapers at that shower either. My husband's family is much more well off than mine so maybe donations are just part of showers? Curious if anyone else has had this happen.
Feeling:overwhelmed
Chemical pregnancy
For medical reasons and a non viable pregnancy my obgyn offered me the choice to take the 2 pills (misoprostal) to attempt to miscarriage or go in for a D&C. Torn what to do and would love others experiences. I’ve heard sometimes the pills don’t work, and it’s also painful and can be a long process. Any advice would be appreciated!!
Feeling:neutral
Pregnancy over 35 HELP!
Hi Mamas!!I have 2 little ones, and we have been trying for our 3rd for over 2 years now! I didn't have trouble getting pregnant with our first two, but having trouble this time. I am also 37 years old!Rather than go down the IVF route, I was wondering if anyone has experience with natural ways of helping. Open to supplements, herbs etc.
Feeling:neutral